Love games

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Raw broken heart and update…

He broke up with me… after I told him I wanted him to be more present in my life and spend more time together, hoping we could take things to the next level. Even though he had mentioned his commitment issues before, it still hit me hard, and now I’m just consumed by anxiety. I’ve…
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Doubts

I’m stuck in my head, going back and forth between what my heart wants and all the doubts in my mind, which is making me wonder if I can even love anymore. I’ve been in this relationship for a year, but honestly, doubts have been there from the start. I keep overthinking everything, not sure…
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Now that we found love.

Entering into a relationship after dating is a significant step, and I find myself grappling with a level of fear and apprehension I haven’t experienced in quite some time. The specter of abandonment looms large, triggering waves of anxiety and resurrecting demons from my past. It’s an intriguing journey, as all the experiences and scars…
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When is the time to give up. This is not advice, it is a search for answers.

So how to recognize a good thing in dating, how to see clearly that somebody is giving just the bare minimum and how to see the difference between your own trauma and reality. I don’t know. Does anyone have an answer to these questions? I am not talking about a list of obvious red flags,…
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Tired of dating.

The advantage of having gone through numerous dates that led to nothing, or meeting the same type of guys (and by ‘guys’ I mean players), is the fact that you become really tired of dating, and you stop taking the whole dating business seriously. Why do I call it an advantage? Because when you grow…
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Greek explosions

I met him on a dating app. We went on a date on the very day that someone I was currently dating broke up with me, in a particularly heartless manner, on a day that held great significance for me. So, this Greek guy was kind of a rebound. We had a really nice date;…
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A painter who wanted to come…over

Life’s twists and turns, especially when it comes to men, can catch you off guard… In the midst of redecorating, I needed a reliable painter, and a male friend suggested one. He came over initially with my friend present, and everything seemed straightforward as we discussed paint options and costs. But when he came back…
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What is relationship drama?

I’ve been contemplating the concept of “relationship drama” lately. What exactly does it entail? In my personal view, it often serves as an exit strategy from a relationship—a pretext people use to avoid confronting their own emotions or acknowledging boundaries they may have crossed. Let me elaborate… If you genuinely care for someone, you wouldn’t…
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He had a girlfriend and I knew it

It all started with an engaging conversation, where he genuinely showed interest in getting to know me. His calls and texts became a comforting routine in the midst of life’s chaos. However, beneath the surface, he revealed he was in a long-term relationship, held together by familial obligations. Despite his caring nature and commitment to…
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Narcissistic abuse & trauma

When you’ve healed from trauma, you’re more likely to recognize and protect yourself from any form of abuse. However, if you haven’t healed yet, the trauma will persist until you confront and address it. Tolerating narcissistic abuse and settling for breadcrumbs in relationships often reflects unresolved trauma in your life. Essentially, it means you’re allowing…
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